Monday, September 26, 2011

Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger says We (Gays) can't be Monogamous

On Bravo's 'Watch What Happens LIVE', Patti had some interesting things to say about gays, jewish men, queens and monogamy

Some folks called for her show to be canceled, but according to some others... Kinda agree (judging from comments on other blogs). It was stupid how she said it, but is there some truth to her words? I would love to hear what do you think.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Jews lie Blacks lie Whites lie we all lie. I didn't hear anything that wasn't true.

Bob said...

That douche is just trying to drum up folks to watch her trashy show.

Isaac said...

Not all gay men want multiple guys, just like not all straight men are monogamous. My boyfriend and I are a perfect example. We've been in a long distance relationship for two years and neither of us has slept with anyone else since our first date. And I know he hasn't because I've told him that if he wants to sleep with someone else, he can as long as he tells me, and he has not taken that offer. Even though we're both in our 20s and only get to physically see each other every few months.

Kyle Leach said...

All human beings lie, all human beings have varied sexuality, and all human beings are flawed.

WilsonW said...

Patti tends to deal with stereotypes and traditional values (male is dominant and needs to be aggressive and women should be more submissive.) If you're a quiet guy she'll tell ya to butch up and be more forward. If you're a strong woman she'll tell you to submit. If you are an overweight woman she'll tell you to lose weight, overweight guy she'll get you a new haircut and new clothes. God forbid you are a red head, she doesn't like those AT ALL! So her generalization in regards to gay guys is limited, largely because she is trying to fit us into the above hetero mold.

But in truth we are a lot more open about sexual options in our relationships(gay men). Largely I think because for so long what a gay relationship was supposed to be lacked definition. (Not being legally able to marry.) So we openly explored multiple options and just do what works for us individually. Which may just make us more honest about our needs and desires in a relationship. While many heterosexuals are locked into the one size fits all "Patti" standard for a relationship, which could help to account for the 65% divorce rate in the country.

Plus you're dealing with two men and mens needs are different from women's in many ways. As is how we may metabolize and process sexual activity with others.

Anonymous said...

I can't stand her.

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